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For Mature Audiences Only

4/10/2014

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            Keith and I have wondered out loud lately, how a word that should be a compliment, “adult,” has come to mean something bad--adult bookstores, adult movies, adult shops.  If a person knew no better, and walked into one of those places what would he see that could be described as “mature” the way the scriptures use the word?  It reminds me of Isaiah’s warning:  Woe unto those who call evil good and good evil; who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put sweet for bitter, and bitter for sweet, 5:20.

            I think there should be a new movie rating:  AM.  It stands for “adolescent mentality.”  Any movie that uses such a meager vocabulary that most of the words have only four letters, that has no dramatic, tension building dialogue lasting longer than ninety seconds before throwing in an explosion or gunfight to get the audience’s attention again, and of course, one that attempts to satisfy the prurient interests of the hormonally-explosive adolescent would get my new rating.  Then those of us who want to behave like real adults, who have larger vocabularies, who don’t need voyeurism to get our kicks, and who have an attention span longer than a minute or two can actually enjoy real adult entertainment.

            The problem with having an adolescent mentality when it comes to entertainment is that it is not confined to that arena.  Can I sit still long enough to pray?  Make yourself pray at least ten minutes today, by the clock.  Can you?  You see, once you get past the standard phrases, two minutes at most, you can really open up to your God, and talk to Him.  If you cannot sit still that long, you may have never really prayed.

            Can I follow a rational argument long enough to study the first 11 chapters of Romans, arguably Paul’s greatest thesis?  Can I study without being led by the hand, or do I simply rely on someone else to do it for me?  Do I have the maturity to honestly examine myself and actually try to do better?  Being a Christian may mean fighting some important battles, but the biggest are usually fought inside yourself and against yourself, with quiet implosions, not loud explosions.

            When we start out, we are all babes in Christ, but He expects us to grow up eventually.  That means some tedious work listening to sermons, attending classes, doing our own Bible study.  Adults understand that not everything can be fun.  It means some long, quiet moments with God.   It means some painful moments of self-discovery.  Are we adult enough to handle it?  Our society’s brand of entertainment speaks otherwise, and unfortunately, society usually winds up worming its way into the body of Christ. 

            When Paul told the Corinthians to Act like men, in 1 Cor 16:13, he was bringing the epistle to its logical end.  While Act like men refers to courage under fire, maybe it can mean something else as well.  In chapter three he calls them “babies,” but now perhaps he is also saying, “Act like adults.”  Would he say the same thing to us? 

But I, brothers, could not speak to you as spiritual men, but as carnal, as babies in Christ.  I fed you with milk, not with meat, for you were not able, and even now you are not able, for you are yet carnal…For everyone who partakes of milk is without experience in the word of righteousness, for he is a baby.  But solid food is for full-grown men who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern good and evil…Be watchful, stand firm in the faith.  Act like men, be strong.   1 Cor 3:1-3; Heb 5:13,14; 1 Cor 16:13

Dene Ward

4 Comments
Karen
4/10/2014 11:30:33 pm

I'm thankful for my 35 - 40 minute commute to work every day because it gives me uninterrupted time for prayer and meditation. What a blessing that has been in my life.

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Bruce Young link
5/3/2016 01:05:06 pm

Great insights--much needed and beautifully stated. Thank you.

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Bruce Young link
5/3/2016 01:10:35 pm

Great insights--much needed and beautifully stated. Thank you.

[Note: I posted the comment again because I mistyped my website address the first time.]

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Dene
5/4/2016 06:41:05 am

No problem. I appreciate the comment(s)!

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    Dene Ward has taught the Bible for more than  forty years, spoken at women’s retreats and lectureships, and has written both devotional books and class materials. She lives in Lake Butler, Florida, with her husband Keith.


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