This, then, is the portrait of Christ, and so—at least in the ideal—of the balanced, Christlike, Spirit-filled Christian. We have no liberty to pick and choose among these qualities. For it is together (as a bunch of fruit or a harvest) that they constitute Christlikeness; to cultivate some without the others is to be a lopsided Christian. The Spirit gives different Christians different gifts…but he works to produce the same fruit in all. He is not content if we display love for others, while we have no control of ourselves; or interior joy and peace without kindness to others; or a negative patience without a positive goodness; or gentleness and pliability without a firmness of Christian dependability. The lopsided Christian is a carnal Christian, but there is a wholeness, a roundness, a fullness of Christian character which only the Spirit-filled Christian ever exhibits.
John Stott, Authentic Christianity
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