I am not a tennis fan. I can figure out most of the rules by watching a couple of games, but to tell the truth, I only do that if I am home sick and have nothing else to watch on television and don't feel like straining my eyes to read. But I do remember the Battle of the Sexes.
At least I remember the second one. I had no idea that a first one ever happened. Probably because it did not end the way the media wanted it to, not to mention all the women in the sports world. The first one took place on May 13, 1973, at the San Vicente Country Club in Ramona, California. Bobby Riggs, a 55 year old tennis champion from the 30s and 40s played Margaret Court, an Australian women's champion who had won 89 of her previous 92 games—before taking time off to have a baby. Their style of play was different and reportedly Riggs had the court surface redone so it played "slower," and that undid Court's usual style of serve and volley, giving him time to get to a shot and put power behind it. He wound up beating her 6-2,6-1.
Immediately, he asked Billie Jean King for a similar match-up, one she had previously turned down. Maybe Court's defeat changed her mind, or maybe it was something else, but she agreed to the match-up. That game took place at the Houston Astrodome on September 20, that same year, and she beat him 6-4,6-3,6-3. That is the battle I heard about, not the first one. Frankly, it wasn't King I was rooting for but Riggs I was rooting against—he was such a loud blowhard that he deserved to lose in my mind.
Of course those are not the only times we hear about competition between the sexes. Maybe it's the abuse women have suffered for centuries, even millennia, from overbearing men in every culture who treat them like personal slaves that causes women to constantly rebel and need to show how good they are. But it has reached the point that it is no longer the aim for women to be treated fairly and equally. Feminists want to make sure people know that women are simply better than men.
This is not the way God wants it. Man and woman were designed to be two halves of the same being. And Jehovah God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and he slept; and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof: and the rib, which Jehovah God had taken from the man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. And the man said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one fleshGen2:21-24. The Word of God variously describes God in terms of a loving father and a loving mother, and uses the same word to describe the divine Beings—One—as he does to describe the two marriage partners. Just as God demands unity in His church, He also demands it in a marriage. Marriage is designed to complete the image of God in which we are all created.
If anything will help you determine whom you marry, perhaps this will. How can you be "one" with someone who does not have the same commitments, the same purpose in life, and the same determination to serve God if you are not both children of that God? Are there instances of Christians being married to unbelievers in the New Testament? Of course there are, but I would guess that most of those were cases of an already married couple where only one was converted and the other not. The questions Paul answers seem to indicate that, especially in I Corinthians 7. "Now that I am a Christian and he is not, should I leave him?"
This morning please consider this one thing. Are you and your spouse truly one or is there a battle of the sexes going on in your home? I hear too many listing faults, complaining to anyone and everyone about pet peeves, and shaking their heads in annoyance over every little thing. Ask yourself, what do my friends hear me saying about my spouse? Are they surprised I ever married such a no-good boor? Because, instead of the astonishing oneness God intended, that may well be the impression you are leaving.
Live joyfully with the wife whom thou love all the days of your life of vanity, which he has given you under the sun, all your days of vanity: for that is your portion in life, and in your labor wherein you labor under the sun Eccl9:9.
Dene Ward